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The Crowd

The outcome attracts crowds.

That’s just how it goes.


When the goal is finally hit…

When the spotlight flips on…

When the win becomes too loud to ignore…

People show up.

They cheer.

They repost.

They want to be part of the moment.


But to be clear…

Most of them didn’t help build it.

They weren’t with us in the grind.

They didn’t see the sleepless nights, the hard decisions, the setbacks we never talked about.

They didn’t see the doubt, the tension, the “we might not make it” moments.


They just see the outcome.

The final product.

The part where it all looks easy.


But we know better.


We know who showed up when the road was messy.

We know who stayed when there was nothing glamorous to stay for.

We know who gave their time, their energy, their belief, before there was anything to celebrate.


Those are the ones we are doing this for.

Those are the ones we keep pushing with.

Those are the ones we clap back for when we win.


Because they weren’t just part of the story.

They helped write it.


So yeah, let the crowds come.

Let them cheer.

Let them admire the view from the top.


But don’t get it twisted.

We climbed this thing together.

And we remember exactly who carried what when the weight got heavy.

ღ Chi

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