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What’s the Work From Home equivalent of a fake family emergency?  (Asking for a friend. Obviously.)  

Back in the office days, the fake family emergency was the gold standard of graceful exits. You’d grab your coat, mutter something about “a situation with my cousin” (you’re an only child), and vanish with the urgency of a spy extracting themselves from a compromised mission. Coworkers would nod solemnly, as you quickly gathered your things.

But now? We work from home. There’s no office to flee, no parking garage to dramatically peel out of, no sympathetic witnesses to your performative distress. Just you, your couch, and the crushing weight of a 3 PM WIP call.  

So what’s the remote worker’s version of I need to step out indefinitely?  I could just log off, but you know, rent.

The Classics:  
-Wi-Fi issues are The GOAT. Timeless. Unverifiable. Bonus points if you send a single frozen frame of yourself mid glitch before ghosting.  
-My dog just ate something weird. Bonus points if you don’t own a dog.
-Camera isn’t working which means I did not consent to being seen today.
-Someone’s at the door. Even if it’s 6:17 AM and you live in a high rise with a doorman. It’s… the Pope? Gotta go.

Advanced Tactics:
-Sorry, my laptop just died! (Sent from your phone. While actively typing in Teams.)
-Wait, is this meeting Eastern? I have been on PST all week. (You live in Texas.)
-My toddler just poured soup into the USB ports. (You are childless today. The soup is yours.)
-Or just unhinged Honesty. I’m currently dissociating so hard I just Googled how to become a lighthouse keeper. BRB.

Look, we’ve all been there. Zoom fatigue. Deadlines. A sudden, unexplainable urge to run. Sometimes, you just need a moment. And remote work has given us a new language for pausing, escaping, or tapping out. These aren’t lies. They are creative expressions of a universal truth. Work is a lot, and sometimes you need to nope out with dignity. The fake emergency is just the socially acceptable wrapper for I have reached my limit of human interaction today.  

So maybe the question isn’t what’s the remote version of a fake emergency? Maybe it’s  
Why are we still pretending that needing a break isn’t a valid enough reason to log off?  
ღ Chi

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